Are you dating the right guy


12-Aug-2017 07:26

And yet here he was, proposing ridiculous conditions in order for us to even be in the same room together.

The truth was that our relationship would never be the same so I thought it pointless to agree to live with racism, rules, and unhappiness just so that we could all spend Christmas together.

Guys have a certain look in their eyes that can lead to the truth.

I grew up in a wonderful and loving home in Southern California.

More awkward silence, lack of eye contact, blank face.

He had every right to be sad, angry, pissed off, frustrated, or just instantly “over it”.

The email contained conditions for us working things out beginning with “you have to agree not to engage in this kind of behavior again” meaning that I would have to agree not to date black guys.

I had a lot of attention growing up being the baby and all, but my main source of affection came from my Dad.My mom hated seafood so we would often go get fish together and make fun of people at work, school, etc. I always made sure everyone felt welcome and included.My dad is tremendously funny and a phenomenal story teller. I wore the same pair of vans tennis shoes to school for 5 years straight, had long un-brushed hair, and wore oversized sweatshirts and jean shorts to school. Because I wasn’t popular and because I was picky, I didn’t go on a single date until I was almost 20 years old. I thought it best to not deal with this all in real time in hopes that my Dad would come to his senses.Though I was definitely willing to fight for him, I couldn’t pretend to understand what it’s like to be black or how he was interpreting any of this news. The email explained his feelings about black people as far as romantic relationships go and the culture differences from our own.