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We have discussed this a lot recently and she has been able to stick to a budget.You are thinking like a single person and not like someone who is about to get married.My reply is similar to the post above: the number one reason married couples get divorced is over financial situations.If you really want to live with this person the rest of your life, make sure you have already sat down with her and agree on both of your financial obligations.She has bad credit, credit card and a student loan from an attempt at college. Would anything bad happen if we just ignored her debt(mostly student loans) if all the assets were in my name and the liabilities were in her name only?She's planning on just staying home and having a kid so she wouldn't have any source of income that could be garnished or intercepted and we have agreed that I would be responsible for the finances since I have a history of financial and career responsibility.We have been together since high school and I fully agree with what you said.
Do you two sit down and plan out your financial goals and priorities? If you love a person, then her problems are your problems.You take them on like Jesus Christ took the problems of the world on his shoulders. So far its been a little more than a year so I have to give her some credit and yes we do sit down and plan our financial goals.In a way I thought up of the idea to use my credit to ditch her old debts to give her a clean slate. She might get sued and that would be a stressful time in both of your lives but they can't take your money, in a community property state (CA right?Besides the above issues..you really sure you want to marry someone who bad credit?
Money is one of the biggest issues people fight about and it sounds like you two probably have very different attitudes toward handling money that could lead to a lot of conflict.We have agreed that I would just add her as an authorized user to one of my cards with a limit that would allow for household expenses and a reasonable amount for shopping.My thing right now is if she has no official income is there anyway it would affect us as a family.There is no "mine" and "hers" when you are married. I am not talking of the specific legalities, mind you (as I don't know the laws in your state)..this type of stuff WILL have an effect on you in one way or another.