Dating straight men
I tried to be both emotionally supportive and masculine, sexy, sexual. In fact I'm 34 now and am dating again and nothing has changed.I bring the emotional side to the dating scene and the women seem to get very connected.
Similarly, the friendship of gay men offers something different than the companionship of straight men.First, because most straight women don’t feel sexual toward gay men, the relationship doesn’t carry the threat of sexual tension.The relationship allows for a safe space in which both parties can let their guards down, be themselves, and share their feelings openly.But then the physical side starts, the side I try very hard to bury at first and it all just blows up in my face time after time after time. Of course you should be emotionally supportive of your wife/gf/fiancee but at the end of the day it still comes down to women want the masculinity.
So you can try and switch gears but then they say "this is too sexual, this is a physical relationship too focused on sex." Its such a weird line to walk as a straight male with a decent emotional IQ.As I mentioned at the beginning, not all relationships between straight women and gay men are healthy.While not the majority, some straight women love gay men for different reasons.Often, the women who get labeled as ‘fag hags’ are overweight, insecure, or uncomfortable with the idea of frequenting straight bars where they could potentially meet men who are interested in them.