I was a bit disturbed by this because my main reason for purchasing the lady's virtual email address was to send and receive letters from her via our private email account and not having to pay the cost of receiving and sending each letter in addition to the .50 per attached photo.However, I decided not to make an issue about this because I was really attracted to this lady's profile; I had selected her after scrolling for several hours through approximately 1500 online profiles until my eyeballs hurt, therefore when I received a letter from her expressing an interest, all my concerns about having to pay in order to open her letter disappeared.To avoid appearing unilaterally demanding or overbearing, I also offered to provide whatever proofs she may require to settle any doubts she might have about me.Her response was that she couldn't produce the earrings because they were loaned to her years ago when she worked as a model.She told me how hurt, offended and disappointed she felt.I felt somewhat guilty for hurting her feelings but I thought it was important to resolve this issue because my feelings of distrust were too strong by now and the relationship was unlikely to develop and prosper with such feelings of insecurity.My personal feelings are the person in this profile and the letter writer are not the same people.
" I could have asked why was she looking for a foreign husband?
Perhaps the lady truly resented my efforts to validate her identity and did not wish to participate in this effort.
Her reasons are open to speculation but I saw this as a small effort to work through a problem in an unconventional dating scenario.
She had sent me a series of photos that were taken so many years apart that it was difficult to recognized her in the series because each photo appeared to be a different woman, although with careful examination, facial features such as the eyebrows and lips appeared to be the same.
I suggested she simply send me a week old photo wearing a set of large earrings that were featured in several of the photos and this would be sufficient proof that she is capable of reproducing herself "graphically speaking" and not just someone with a collection of model photos with no knowledge or access to the original owner.
The responses I received would consist of a few sentences asking more questions.