Internet dating good first message
Keep it short You don’t want to write so much she loses interest.It should be short, concise and have questions, so she can have the opportunity to respond.I love feedback, as long as you’re not a dick about. I assume that I should actually be TRYING to write a quality message because the content of the message is actually going to be read and weighed in the decision process of whether or not she will be responding back to me. Women, you should absolutely only respond to guys you find attractive, but beware of ANY guy who won’t even spend 5 minutes to read your profile and send you a personalized message.It COULD be a tell-tale sign of things to come in the relationship.Meaning I have objectives that I try to meet with each message that I send.Objective 1: Prove that you read her profile This is by far the most important objective, I would think female’s are looking for a guy that actually invested the time to read her profile before he decided to send her a message.
Since I write a blog about the good, bad and funny of online dating, a lot of my female friends send me a lot of their good, bad and funny interactions from online dating.How I demonstrate I actually took the time to read her profile is by commenting on something specific mentioned in her profile (DUH).Typically, it’s something complementary on something she has mentioned as a passion, interest or career. ” Objective 2: Show we have similar interest/things in common Okay, you’ve proven you’ve read her profile, now you need to demonstrate you actually have things in common.Well in order for that to happen, you have to ask her questions.